Chaos & Caffeine - ADHD Parenting Podcast

Alphabet Soup: The ADHD Parent's Guide to IEPs, 504s, and WTFs

Danielle Kelly Season 1 Episode 49

Feeling lost in a sea of IEPs, 504s, FBAs, and all those other acronym landmines tossed around at school meetings and doctor visits? You’re not alone—and you’re definitely not clueless. In this episode of Chaos & Caffeine, ADHD parenting expert and emotional support bestie Danielle Kelly breaks down over 30 essential neurodivergent terms in plain English, with relatable stories, mom-level sarcasm, and zero judgment.

From decoding educational lingo to understanding behavior plans, this episode is your no-fluff, judgment-free decoder ring. You’ll walk away feeling empowered, educated, and maybe even ready to raise your hand in that next IEP meeting like the confident, caffeinated advocate you are.

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